Two words that sound almost identical get confused constantly, and the confusion causes no end of muddled conversations. Polyamory and polygamy both begin with poly, both involve more than two people, and both make many people uneasy, so they blur together in the popular imagination as if they were the same thing. They are not. …
Start browsing property in Europe, whether idly dreaming or seriously house-hunting from across the ocean, and you hit a wall almost immediately: every home is measured in square meters, a unit of area that means precisely nothing at all to an American eye. A listing proudly announces ninety square meters, or seventy, or a hundred …
An office worker in Bologna at 12:45pm closes his laptop, walks to a small trattoria three minutes from his building, and sits down at a table. He orders the menu of the day. He eats his lunch sitting in a chair at a table with cutlery, conversation with the waiter and other regulars, and approximately …
A French office in Lyon empties at 12:30 on Tuesday. The marketing director, the engineers, the administrative staff, the executives. They all leave the building. They walk to nearby restaurants, brasseries, or home if they live close enough. They sit down. They order. They eat. They talk. By 2:00 or 2:15, they are walking back …
Picture a German apartment on a freezing January morning, the temperature well below zero outside, and then picture the windows being thrown wide open, on purpose, deliberately, to let the frigid outside air come pouring in. To an American, watching good heat escape into a winter morning looks like madness, or at least like a …
It is one of the quiet nightmares of renting abroad. You have settled into your apartment in Spain, you have your routines, your neighborhood, your home and your life there, and then one day the news arrives: the landlord has sold the building. A new owner, a company you have never heard of, perhaps an …
Visitors to France are often startled by the sight of small children sitting calmly through a long restaurant meal, eating beets and fish and salad without complaint, waiting patiently between courses, and generally behaving at the table in a way that would seem impossible back home. It is tempting to assume French children are simply …
In the heart of Madrid, in neighborhoods where a modest apartment now rents for fifteen hundred euros a month or more, a small and dwindling number of people are paying something closer to three hundred, or five hundred, for a home in the same building, on the same street, sometimes behind an identical door one …
You order an espresso at an Italian bar, drink it down in thirty seconds standing at the counter the way the locals do, and the barista hands you, along with it, a small printed receipt, the scontrino. You did not ask for it, you have no use for it, and yet there it is, issued …
So my acid reflux disappeared and I’m mad about it. Not mad that it’s gone mad that the solution was so stupidly simple and French women have been doing it forever while I was over here popping Tums like candy and sleeping propped up on three pillows like some kind of Victorian invalid. Two hours. …
The first time an American stays in a German apartment and reaches up to open a window, something strange and slightly disorienting happens. The window does not slide up the way American windows always have. Instead there is a single handle, and depending on how you turn it, the whole window either swings open into …
There is a particular kind of American who speaks about Kerrygold the way others speak about a good wine, or a single-origin coffee, with a reverence that can seem faintly excessive for a block of dairy. That gold foil, that deep yellow block, that Irish butter with the cult following, is held up as living …